From: icarus@hot.sun
Subject: Early Bondage Experiences
Date: Mon, 11 Nov 1996 20:22:10 -0500
Organization: Microserve Information Systems (800)-380-INET

Several weeks ago I posted a request for accounts of early bondage
experiences. I promised that I would share with responders the results
of my query re early bondage experiences. Here is a representative
sampling of the responses I received. I have edited some of them only
slightly for consistency and grammar, most of them I haven't touched
at all. I do not yet have enough for a book, if such a thing is even
necessary. Thanks to those who answered my query- and why were they
all male?

Kurt (43) "My cousin and I used to do a game when I was 12 and he 13.
I would pretend as a captured spy or something like that. He would
make me strip clothes and would tie me in a thick chair with my legs
spread. Then he would cause me to be hard and keep me that way with
slow stroking until I agreed to confess. Finally then he would let me
come. We called the game Persuasion. It was wonderful and they are
some of my happiest sexual memories."

Paul (28) "At summer camp we would play a game at night that involved
finding and stealing the other team's flag. My team always won because
we "tortured" information out of our prisoners by masturbating them
very, very slowly until they coudn't stand it any more and told us
what we wanted to know so we would let them spurt. It was fun for
everyone, I think, and no one ever squeeled to the leaders, either. I
also remember that after the word got out, we had a lot more prisoners
than we had been able to catch before"

Marshall (35) "My brother and I shared a room from the time I was
eleven until he went to college. He was two years older than me.
Sometimes at night he liked me to give him back rubs and when I was
about twelve he started to get boners during the back rub and would
turn over and I would give him a handjob with the same lotion. After a
few months of this he said he had read about something he wanted us to
try. He had me tie him down to the bed all stretched out and jerk him
off real slow for a long time. It was some kind of special oriental
torture he said. He really liked it a lot and I thought it was fun,
too, but he never would return the favor no matter how I begged him."

Nick (31) "When I was in the seventh grade there was a kid my age who
lived just down the street. He was into all this medieval stuff and
had even built a make-believe dungeon in his basement, complete with
an old table that he called his rack. One day after school he
convinced me to get up on the rack and try it out. He tied my legs and
arms to the rollers and tightened me up on it and I felt the wierdest
thrill run though me, like an electric shock almost but very
pleasurable. I'd never felt like that before and it was great. We
started playing down in his dungeon a lot after that. His mom worked
so we would have the place to ourselves after school. After a while he
talked me into taking off my clothes when he tied me up and it didn't
take long after that until we were into a whole new thing. He would
warm up a cup of mineral oil and rub it all over me until I was real
shiney, like I had been sweating, and then he would rub my dick with
the oil until I got a boner. He'd tie a string around my nuts and cock
and that would keep me hard for a long time. The idea was that he had
to make me talk by working on my dick with the oil until I wanted to
cum so bad I'd tell him what he wanted to know. After I had talked he
would take the string off me and bring me off. Boy, that was really
something to cum when you're stretched out like that and have been
teased for a long time! I get hard just thinking about it even after
all this time."

5. I was older than the examples you posted so don't know if my experiences
fit your project but here goes. In high school 2 friends used to tie me
(wrists only) and strip me naked and stimulate me until I was so horny and
aching I would do what they wanted (which was "do" them). They would take
turns doing it to me in the mouth, then when they were both done one of
them would "do" me (orally) before untying me. This experience was
non-consensual the first time but when it started happening the second time
I didn't struggle too hard. Later in college one drunken night I told this
secret to two pals and when they pressed me for "details", "show us",etc it
ended up happening again, tied up and forced to do oral on 2 cocks, but got
done as my 'reward'.

6. I lived in a tough neighborhood and when I was about 12 two really butch
girls from across the street used to get their jollies by dragging me down
into their basement and tying me to a post and pulling my pants down. They
would laugh and point and tease me about my little dick and then would
tickle and play with it until I got hard. I struggled and begged and
pleaded but I was really getting off on it all and we played this "game"
until I was almost fourteen. I had my first non-self-induced orgasm tied up
in that damned basement. Sometimes I'd have to walk up and down for almost
an hour in their alley befoe they'd see me and come and grab me.

7. The quote you gave about scout camp really hit home with me. My bunch
used to like to do initiations, and the finale was always a lengthy,
ritualistic jerk-torture session on a spreadeagled, well-oiled victim. Just
like in your quote, no one ever told an adult leader about what was going
on after lights-out. Despite much fearful whispering and speculation by the
younger boys, we were as fascinated and excited as we were scared. I can
still remember the moans and pleadings of the boys subjected to this
ordeal. I was never initiated. Darn.

8. I am reminded of experiences of my 14th and 15th year in rural ...
During this time I was the willing,eager, and ever-instigating
slave/prisoner of a kinky 18-year-old that everyone else in our area
thought of as the star football player and all-round great guy. I spent
many hours strapped between uprights in his dad's barn while he perfected
ways to make me wiggle and beg. Once he dipped my stiffer inwarm milk and
turned a two-day-old calf loose on me. Goodness, but I would like to relive
those times! Would you believe he is now a banker in a major mid-western
city?

9. My cousin was two years older than I was and a good bit bigger, too. She
was kind of a tomboy and liked to play what my folks called rough
games. Her favorite was to wrestle me down to the floor and tie my hands
behind my back. Then she would tease and taunt me about how she was going
to take off all my clothes and tickle me. I would beg and plead but it
would never do me any good. She'd strip me really slowly, enjoying my
wiggling and pleading for her to stop. Once I was naked, she would start
the tickling. She really was a little sadist because she would go on for
what seemed like hours no matter how I begged to stop. After a while she
would sit on my stomach, facing my feet, and start on my dick and
balls. She'd play with me until I got a boner and then stroke me off while
making me tell her how much I liked it. I didn't realize until much later
that she was getting off on that part as much as I was. I was eleven and
she was about thirteen. Sometimes once she'd get me stripped she liked to
sit on my chest and lean down and kiss me over and over. She called it
=8Csex practise' and it didn't take long for her to discover that she could
get me hard that way, too. Something about the kissing and sticking her
tongue in my mouth would really get me hot. Two or three times she'd call
some girlfriends of hers on the phone after she got me tied up and they'd
come over and take turns practising kissing on me. Then she'd show them how
she jerked me off and they would try. Once I can remember they made me come
about eight or nine times and my dick was so sore the next day I was afraid
it might fall off.  I'm not sure, but I think someone in the family said
she was a lesbian. I haven't seen her in more than ten years now.

10.  I'm not sure how much detail you want, but when I was about 11 or
12 a friend and I liked to play a game that I think we got the idea
for from a movie. We'd flip a coin and the loser would have to let the
other guy tie him up in a chair and do all kinds of stuff to him to
make him give up. After a while we began to add stuff, like the guy
had to kiss the other guy's belly-button if he gave up. And later we
changed it from the belly-button to the tip of the other guy's dick.
When we started playing the game the guy in the chair just had to take
his shirt off like in the movie, but pretty soon we were down to
underpants and a little after that the guy had to be butt-naked. We
invented a whole bunch of ways to make the guy in the chair give up,
too. The next-to-last penalty we invented was that the loser had to
take the other guy's cock all the way into his mouth and hold it there
for a count of ten. I bet you can guess where our game went from
there.

I have a few more of these accounts, but this post is already long
enough. If you would like the others, let me know here. Sorry, but
since the demise of anon.penet.fi you'll have to communicate with me
thru the newsgroup. Thanks.