Date: Wed, 7 Oct 2009 16:04:29 -0700 (PDT)
From: Tim Crouch <stretch2009yoga@yahoo.com>
Subject: Prostate Massage

This is a story about sensual contact between adult men. If you are
offended by this, please read no further.

Prostate Massage: Part 1

In my ten year career as a massage therapist, I've had moments with a male
client when my intuition told me that he was yearning for his anus to be
massaged. When I am working on his lower back, thighs, or buttocks,
sometimes he raises his ass slightly, almost trying to force contact
between my fingers or hands and his anus. I see a lot of erections under
the sheets, but I've always set the client at ease with comments like,
"Hey, it's natural. It happens all the time."

Recently, I've discovered the benefit of Yoga and meditation for my own
wellness. Yoga has greatly improved my ability to live in the moment, to
breathe. I find that I am happier, more at peace, and more energized. I
have more sexual energy that feels grounded and fulfilling. I attended a
clinic for gay men based on Joe Kramer's "The fine art of male genital
massage/anal massage." I've always enjoyed anal sex, both as a top and
bottom, and I've occasionally used sex toys when I masturbate, but I had
never seriously considered the benefit of yoga, breathing, and anal massage
for clients.

After this clinic, I was eager to practise yoga and anal massage with male
clients. I decided to sell my business and open a new yoga/tantric massage
clinic. I advertised on line and in a local gay/lesbian paper. I soon got
more calls and clients than I could keep up with. I found there was a huge
demand for men who wanted to safely explore anal work.

Here are a few stories of things that I've done with/for clients.

I always discuss for at least an hour their needs and what I can offer. We
always start on the yoga mats wearing shorts, doing yoga to warm up,
centre, focus our breathing and stretch. We usually end up in table pose
(on all fours), doing cat/cow movement slowly with each inhale/exhale. We
add the anal clenching/relaxing, that flexing that could cut off the urine
flow while you are peeing. Once we are focused, relaxed, and breathing
deeply and evenly, the client will lie on his back while I help him remove
his shorts. I always wear latex gloves before I begin genital contact.

I begin by working some lubricant on the taint between the scrotum and
anus, working a little into the anus with a finger. I am amazed at how hard
the cock gets when I do this to a client. I remind him to keep breathing
evenly and deeply throughout the massage. I find that if a client is
particularly tense, anal massage gives him the greatest stress relief. I
will work a finger into the anus, and encourage him to release any sounds
or noises that will release the tension. Soft moans often start but usually
build to louder, more erotic outburst. Once he is open enough to take the
full length of my finger, I can rub his prostate inside with my finger and
outside with my thumb. Just awakening the prostate brings him and me such
joy. One client welled up with tears of joy. Others just sigh in incredible
relief. The amazing thing is that every man I've done this to is rock hard,
without ever touching his cock. I have him keep his hands at his side to
help balance his core. I let him rest his feet of the floor, insert one or
two finger with my tips right on his prostate, then ask him to raise and
lower his hips in a rocking motion that is comfortable to him, reminding
him to breathe deeply and slowly with each motion. Essentially, my fingers
are just a prop on which he is learning to fuck himself, but my finger tips
are skilled at rubbing and stroking the prostate with each pass. I have one
client who will simply fuck himself like this for 30 minutes. Without ever
touching himself, he always has an amazing orgasm. He's the kind of guy who
really moans loud when he cums. He always cleans up his orgasm with his
hands and swallows his own cum, with the same moans of satisfaction and
delight.

After the prostate rocking on my fingers, I'll offer many variation of
things: using enemas, anal beads, prostate toys, or dildos to keep up the
massage. The one thing I encourage all my clients to do is to enjoy the
moment and not to jack off. I've never had a client leave unsatisfied! So
many of them are surprised that it is possible to have an orgasm without
ever touching their cocks!

My newest clients seem to be married men (who are either straight or bi).
They have heard of the joys of prostate massage, but feel paralyzed to seek
this kind of joy from their wives. While I would love to teach this to
couples, most men are not willing to tell their wives that they come to me
for this service. I have never fucked or sucked off a client, yet I feel
such satisfaction helping them to enjoy this anal pleasure. It is such a
grounding and incredible stress relief. I have one client who has a high
powered job, and he comes in every Monday after work to "unwind" with this
work. Most of my clients tell me of the deep sense of joy and satisfaction
and calm that they feel after anal massage.

Now I run clinics in small groups of 8 people (including me). We pair up
and do anal massage on each other after a full hour of yoga and meditation.
The sexual energy in the room is incredible as four of us are getting
anally serviced by the other four. After we each peek, we switch and return
the favour for the partner. These groups have become very popular. People
are finding a deep sense of joy and satisfaction without ever even fucking
each other.

I continue to seek new ways of helping men to explore the joy and intensity
of prostate and anal massage. Keep checking back, and maybe I'll post some
more stories!

Tim Housen
stretch2009yoga@yahoo.com