Date: Tue, 26 Oct 2021 16:51:12 -0700 From: Barry Taft Subject: How to Suck a Cock How to suck a cock I am 60 and I have been sucking dick for 30 years. It began with quite a shocking event. I was in an ABS one, minding my own business when a very attractive penis intruded into my safe space through the hole in the wall. Not the first time that had ever happened. But it was the first time I paid any real attention. I was watching in a video which reminded me of an ex-girlfriend who could achieve orgasm while sucking on a penis. It was a site to behold to watch her shudder violently with a penis in her mouth while both hands were involved in giving him (or me) pleasure and not on her clit. So with that thought filling my imagination, it seemed to me the most natural thing in the world to drop to my knees and receive it into my mouth. Mind you I had never sucked a guy before in my life but no sooner than his cock was fully engulfed in my mouth, the owner of that lovely penis began to ejactulate. Oh my gawd he spewd forth! And to my shock I swallowed all of it and I was hooked. I returned to that bookstore every day for a year. I don't claim to have sucked 52 cocks that year but I tried my best and I sucked a lot of dick. To my shagrin the 2nd time wasn't as easy as the first. It took quite a while to be able to suck without getting my teeth involved. And I received several rejections. But I stuck with it and as the old addage says "Practive makes better, no one is perfect". So eventually I had more success than failure and I swallow a lot of cum that year. So hear are some of the things I have learned over the years: 1. Practice 1. Practice makes better, no one is perfect. I have an aquaintance whom I have had the pleasure of sucking on many occasions and he swears that no one gives him a better blowjob than I do. He is very kind to say so. I can only say that I aim to please and I have had a lot of practice. 2. In order to practice, you need opportunities. i. Craigs list was great but alas it is not longer and option. Soon after my glory hole experience above I placed adds on CL and after a while I was suckng a cock at least once a week if not more. ii. Find an ABS near you with a glory hole and don't be shy. Within reason, suck anything that is offered. iii. Double list isn't bad but there are a lot of guys who are horny until you say "Thursday at 7 o'clock". iv. If its feasable set up a glory hole in your home or condo or apartment. I did. The combination of CL and my glory hole allowed me to suck many many many cocks. After a short time I was sucking cocks every single day and some days more. On at least one occasion I sucked 10 cocks in an afternoon till late evening. About one an hour v. Grindr is good. I have sucked a number of guys from there. vi. Random guys. Admittedly I have not been successful this way. I don't pick up signals very will. If you have some suggestions, I wold be eager to hear them vii. Open to suggestions. 1. Mouthing 1. Mouthing is what we all see in the videos. The lips in contact with the shaft. As much as I possible with you to give the guy some semblance of the feeling like when his penis is in a pussy or an ass. Things that are different are not the same so granted it is not the same but you try as you can to do so. This will add to your cocksuking skill set. 2. Sucking 1. Yes sucking as we all know is the main ingredient in giving a blowjob. With your lips sealed around the shaft, suck like you are drinking a milk shake through a straw. Oh wait, you are! 1. The emphasis should be on the upward portion of the suck because your are trying to create an upward preasure inside the penis, drawing more and more blood up into the shaft. If you emphasize the downstroke you may force blood back into the body and defeat the purpost 1. Jacking (hand job) 1. I have always taken a lighter approach to this rather then being heavy handed, unless the guy really loves to be jacked off. I like to use my hand as as an aid to my mouth, lips and tongue rather than the main device. If his cock is big enough to accommodate your hand try to keep constant contact with the entire shaft when it is not engulfed in your mouth 2. Sometimes a guy will prefer to just jack off and use your mouth and tongue as a target. Hey I am all for that since I am actually lazy and don't like to work too hard. It is so hot to watch a rope of spunk shooting out towards my outstretched tongue. Thrilling! 2. Tongue 1. Whenever I watch a cocksucking video I am always looking for that tongue action. If you see the tongue proturding out of the guys mouth appearing under the shaft of the cock, that is what I am referring to. That gives a guy a lot of pleasure. What you can't see is if the cocksucker is swirling his tongue periodically around the head of the cock. If he knows to do that, he is a good cocksucker. Whenever possible fasten your tongue against the underside of his shaft to create a pleasureable feeling along the whole length of the dick and alternate by swirling your tongue around his helmet. Both will give him pleasure and will feel pleasurable to you as well. 3. Perineal raphe: 1. The PR is the ridge tissue stretching between his balls and his asshole. It appears as a longitudinal band that runs front to back over the entire scrotum. 2. While you're sucking the shaft or licking or kissing the head (I like to kiss the head and give it a lot of love before I really get into it) or stroking the shaft or whatever turns you on, take your middle finger and rub it back and forth across the PR. The PR will feel like a tendon, and it will "snap" a bit as you move your finger back and forth across it. This will intensify the of pleasure of the guy you're sucking. Find the tendon on the outside of your leg, just about the knee. Rub your finger back and forth across it and will have some idea of how it feels to snap it. Or do the same thing to your own perineal raphe while you're masturbating. 4. Fingering 1. Some guys love to have a finger in their ass while they are being sucked and some guys won't cum until they feel that fucking sensation in their rectum. If you are not willing to do that you will miss getting some loads that you otherwise would have gotten. 5. Patience 1. The most import quality in giving a guy the satisfaction he needs and the reward you desire is patience. In the early going I was far too eager to get that delicious load of sperm and to have that marvelous sensation of a his penis ejaculating load after load of delicious spunk with my tongue fastened to the underside of his shaft. So I would try too hard and stoke and suck and jack him too furiously. A man's psychology is to delay orgasm as long as possilbe. And it seems the more you try the more he delays. He will cum when his ready. So put on your patience cap and enjoy the ride. When he is ready he will spew forth to your great delight. 6. Swallowing 1. If you are going to be a cocksucker, you better ready to swallow. If you are not ready or not sure you want to, you will be unpleasantly surprised. And your going to choke on it and very possibly puke. 7. Finishing him off 1. As you practice you will better a recognizing the signals that your guest is ready to cum. His penis gets harder. His breathing gets more ragged. His balls may get tighter. At a glory hole you may hear a knocking on the wall. 2. If you are lucky, he will tell you he is getting close. My favorite is to hear him say urgently, "I'm Cuming!!!" and immediately my mouth and throat are flooded with sperm. No mystery there. 3. So, when you think he is ready, you have to move in for the kill. 4. Picture the iconic blowjob. if he starts fucking your face, you just hang on for dear life. You're about to be rewarded. If he is on the large side you may feel like you are going to gag. 5. If he is on the smaller side and you can deep throat him, all the better, fasten your tongue against his shaft and suck for all you are worth. 8. Parting thoughts 1. If his dick looks good to you, tell him so. It will add to his state of arousal. 2. If he likes to talk nasty while getting blown, encourage him to do so. That will also add to his arousal. 3. If he is hesitant about ejaculating in your mouth put him at ease so he will be more willing to do so. 4. If he likes his balls licked by all mean lick them. 5. There is nothing nastier to me than have my face buried in a man's crotch and the nearness of his erect potent phallus. Well, I really hope that you find this helpful. If so drop me a line.