Date: Fri, 31 Mar 2023 21:38:57 +0000 From: Bob Park Subject: Clayton gives advice Clayton gives advice This story is fictional, and all names are made up. Must be 18+ to view. The storyline contains activities that can make some feel uncomfortable, activities like incest, gay and lesbian sex, and graphic sexual activities. If this offends you, please look elsewhere. Please donate and support Nifty, they provide such a great service. Authors note: This is an extension of the Nifty story "Justine, just be nice", which evolved from Nifty story "Mindy and Jim", which spun from "Finding the right mate". My name is Clayton. I just received my bachelor's degree in Sociology, and I am working on my master's degree. As a senior class project, I created a website, and I also host a daily podcast. I love researching societal norms and their origins, and how they relate to present day relationships. On my website (Stud4advice.com) I list items that everyone should know to understand society and male/female relationships. If you have a situation that requires my advice you can post it on my website for everyone to see, and I will address it on my podcast. Or you can email me at 4studclayton@gmail. If identified I will never use last names, and if you want you can make-up a first name. Here is the basis of my research: If you go way back in history there have always been prostitutes and even sexual slaves. When armies pillaged a village, they would take young women and train them to be hand maidens or breeding stock. Boys and young men were trained to be soldiers or bedwarmers. There were always a few boys attending to the sexual needs of any invading army. Then, as they established themselves the 3 major religions screwed everything up. After the biblical fantasy of Sodom and Gomorrah it was preached that all homosexual activities were evil. Prostitution has always existed but went somewhat underground and identified by a red candle or light. In Christian commandments it was preached that sex between a man and a woman was purely for procreation, and it was a sin for any other reason. Christianity went all in on sin! Sin was used to control mankind in every facet of life, and still does. It is only in the last 6 decades that divorce was something to be discussed at the dinner table and has become a common occurrence. Instead of being labeled as a "queer" as in the past, LGBTQ has become mainstream, and children proudly announce their conversion. It is for a different discussion whether peer pressure made them announce their "gayness" before they had a chance to test drive other choices. Mutilation/body modification is obscene prior to someone becoming an adult. But that is just my opinion. There are some societal realities that need to be identified: 1) Incest has always existed and is more common than most would believe. 2) There are more cheating boyfriends/spouses than you can count, whether married or not. 3) There are many husbands and wives involved with homosexual activities on the side. 4) Regarding those cheating spouses in #2, there are many wives with lovers on the side where their husband is aware or even encourages her infidelity. This can also apply to non-married couples that are dating. 5) In every town there are hundreds of single men or husbands that embrace crossdressing, and it may have started as a young child. Some mothers are pretty twisted in their desire to emasculate their little boys. On my website I state that as a "guy's guy" my knowledge is based on what drives men. I openly admit that I will never fully understand was goes on in the female mind. That undoubtably colors my responses to some questions. My podcast of Monday the 6th: Before I address the first question of the day, I will tell you a short story. In my college years I had a roommate with an attractive girlfriend. Despite her preference of oral sex with males and females, he had her hypnotized and turned into a willing slut to be enjoyed, when he wished. Once someone learned the phrase to trigger her, the boyfriend would create situations where his girlfriend was trapped and became a sexual plaything for anyone nearby. Afterwards she had no memory of who used her body or how many. I must admit that she gave a great blow job, but how twisted was her boyfriend to pimp her out to anyone for free. He said that he loved her and intended to marry her. How weird! But the law of unintended consequences happened. As the girlfriend became more of an aggressive lover even under the hypnotic control, her boyfriend started becoming a totally submissive gay pussy. I'm not sure if that was his punishment for treating someone that he supposedly loved that way or was it just karma. We will take a two-minute commercial break.... Well on to the first question: I(20m) am a college student in my junior year. I have been dating a very attractive girl(20f) and we get along great. The sex is excellent between us, and we are in an exclusive relationship. We are both from the same area although we went to different high schools. When I was home for Thanksgiving, we ran into an old buddy that I hadn't seen since high school. He said it looks like I am doing great with a wink. We promised to get together sometime. A few days later I got a text from him, and he told me to see this website. I clicked on it, and it was for an escort service, and under their staff was a picture of my girlfriend. It said she was available to "escort" during the summer, and sometimes during the holidays. Needless to say, I was perplexed that she never told me of her escort job, and I had to question whether I could accept that she did this. I would appreciate your advice. I responded to him as if he was in the room. I suspect that she is doing this to fund going to college. Which is no different than a waitress at Hooter's or even some exotic dancers. Would you feel different if she was a waitress there? You need to figure out if you think if her working there is a deal breaker, and why. Is there some religious reason that you find unacceptable? You said that you get along great, and the sex is excellent, so I doubt you are overly religious. So, it gets down to two questions that you must ask yourself: First, does it make you insecure that you won't measure up to her other lovers? Some that are more experienced, and even endowed better than you. Can you compete with a guy with a big cock? Second, you need to ask her if she intends to do "escorting" after college. Do you love her enough to accept that, and support her career choice? She may like this job because she gets to enjoy a variety of sexual partners. Can you get off being a cuckold? I hope this helps you. The only downside is that I won't know which way it ends up. Now it's time for a commercial break.... Here is our second question of the day: My girlfriend (24f) and I (25m) have been dating for 4 months. We discussed being exclusive and she admitted that she has been dating others at the same time as me. She is in marketing, and I thought her late nights were work associated. When she told me that, I felt like I was punched in the gut. All I can think about is whether they were getting the same amount of sex as me. I need your advice on how to proceed. My response is that you need to address your insecurity with professional counseling. Just because she was having sex with others doesn't mean she can't be monogamous if you ever get married. With counseling you could learn to appreciate her need to have multiple sexual partners, and even be supportive. Be proud to have her as your girlfriend or wife. If you can't, you are just a shallow wimp, and I would recommend that she dumps you. That didn't take long, and we will address another question after a commercial break..... This will probably be our last question for today. But first I want to thank everyone that "likes" our podcast and website. The number of members has tripled in the last month. We have heard from several listeners that they use their earbuds at work, so they can listen each workday. We broadcast live each weekday at 10am and rebroadcast a copy of the morning show at 2pm. Tell your co-workers to listen in also, it should provide for some interesting conversations at lunch. This question was posted on our website. I(28f) found out from my friends that my husband(31m) has had sex with most of my female friends, and even some of the husbands too. They decided that I need to know how much of a hound dog my husband is before he knocks someone up. I confronted him about it, and he didn't deny it. He said that it goes back to his childhood. He told me that he started having sex with other boys when he was 13, and sucking cock became addictive. He said that this is normal for most teen boys and usually progresses to anal sex. He stated that in high school is attraction changed to girls, even though he continued having sex with boys. That confirmed that he was Bi. He tried to get every girl in his school to have sex with him, and there were a few pregnancy scares. To this day he still hates condoms. My question is, should I divorce him or just look the other way if he is a good lover and husband to me. We have two children in elementary school, and I don't know how I could explain a breakup to them. Well, my response to your question is pretty simple. If you continue to look the other way, will he allow you to have other lovers? It seems only fair. Spouses that do have affairs on the side occur in half the homes on your block. In Europe the lover on the side is known to the spouse in a very civilized way. It's no big deal and that seems healthy. I am sure you had sex with other girls growing up, so why not have a BFF bedmate? or go to the gym and look for handsome guys with a big bulge in his shorts. You deserve to have great sex too whenever you want it. If your husband isn't open to you having lovers and won't stop his philandering, then divorce is your only choice and tell him in a very blunt way. Faced with losing half of everything that you own can be a great motivator. Well, our time is up, and we will handle more questions tomorrow..... I felt it was a good show, and the questions that we picked were a good cross section. I now need to review the website and my email account for tomorrow's questions. My podcast of Tuesday the 7th : Well, good morning, everyone. I hope everyone enjoyed yesterday's broadcast as much as I did. People write about some things that are so obvious or totally out of everyone's control. One young gal wrote about her boyfriend, and that he has a really small penis. That is something that can't be fixed and unless he has a long-pointed tongue, he is not a keeper. There are plenty of guys with a nice size dick, say 5 or 6 inches long or a large dick, say 7 to 10 inches and thick enough to please you, so move on. So on to our first question... My boyfriend (20m) and I (19f) have been happily dating for a few years. We both go to our local community college and work on our associate degrees. Our problem is with our parents. His mom (39f) has been divorced for a few years, and ever since the divorce has been very clingy with her son. She and I get along fairly good. My dad (42m) has been separated from my mom since before I was in kindergarten. He has single handedly raised me, and spoiled me, I am daddy's little princess. My boyfriend came over for Sunday dinner and we had a few neighbors attending. Despite being a little possessive my dad and him get along well. After dinner my boyfriend had to go to the bathroom, and since the downstairs one was occupied, I told him to use the master upstairs. After he did his business, he was cutting through my dad's bedroom and noticed a digital picture frame. His curiosity got to him, and he clicked through a few pictures. He came across one of me naked with a cock in my mouth, looking up. He turned it off and came quickly downstairs. He didn't say anything about his discovery that evening. The next day he was brave enough to talk about the picture. He apologized for invading our privacy. There was no use to deny it, so I admitted that yes it was me sucking my dad's cock. I explained that when I was about 8, I started sleeping in my dad's bed. It was all innocent but by the time I was 12 he caught me eating out my best friend during a sleepover. My dad didn't have any sisters, so he didn't know that this was a normal activity for teen girls. He decided that we needed to have the "talk". I explained to him, that this was just having fun and it feels neat to get the orgasm tingles. He said from his experience teen boys do the same thing to each other. He said that he really enjoyed getting and receiving a blowjob when he was my age. I asked him pretty please could he teach me how to give one. He first explained that despite the name, that no blowing was involved. That night he trained me how to give him a blowjob. That picture was like a graduation picture, just before he came. He was so proud of me, and I repeated it regularly several nights a week, even now. My boyfriend said, that explains why I give a better blowjob than any girl he has met. He kissed me and said that I am a great fuck too. I didn't mention to him that my dad taught me that too. He said he understood and said his mom has helped him out the same way on several nights. Since the house was empty and we were now horny from all this talk, we proceeded to my bedroom to "practice" pleasing each other. Later we decided that if we could get our parents together, that it would be good for all involved. We can get them together but short of giving his mom a roofy, we didn't how to get them in bed. So, I arranged a candlelight dinner for our parents and us. They got along well, and laughed telling embarrassing childhood stories of us, and we kept their wine glasses full. When my boyfriend and his mom left my dad said to her how much he enjoyed the evening, and he gave her a hug and kiss on the cheek. We can encourage them to see each other but not much more. My question is, did we do enough or is there more we can do playing cupid? It would be really nice, if all of us lived in the same house, and we could participate in sex together. OK, that was quite the story. Honestly, I don't think there is much more you can do, other than getting them super horny and locking them in the bedroom. Your dad will either break down the door, or his mom will have a really good night. I hope for the latter. We need to take a break for a commercial before we sign off.... My podcast of Wednesday the 8th : As I have noted on my website (Stud4advice.com) infidelity is a common occurrence, and in some cases healthy. Both questions today revolve around that although from a different perspective. Question one.... I(16m) am concerned about my parents. My mom (34f) has been cheating on my dad. I came home early from school and there was a strange car parked out front. As soon as I got in the house you could hear a headboard banging against the wall, and my mom yelling to someone, to fuck her harder. It was obvious that there was sex going on upstairs, and my dad wasn't home. I listened for a few minutes, and I left quietly with a stiff erection, and headed to Starbucks. As a teenage boy would, I fantasized many nights about me screwing my mom. She is pretty hot and easily qualifies as a MILF. In my hormone driven mind, if she was having sex with me, it wouldn't be cheating on my dad. I hope this doesn't make me some kind of pervert. My dilemma is: 1) should I tell my dad, or 2) should I tell my mom what I heard, and maybe blackmail her into having sex with me, or 3) just pretend that it ever happened, and enjoy jerking off to visions of my mom getting nailed by some hung stud. I have buddies that I jackoff with, and occasionally suck off, and I am sure they would love to hear about my mom's cheating. I appreciate your advice. Well, there are a few things about your question that I need to respond to. So, big deal that your mom is having sex with someone other than your dad. At least half of your town, around your mom's age is getting nailed on the side. Also, you're assuming that your dad doesn't know about it. He may be getting some on the side when he is working late with his secretary, and your mom knows. You see you're making a lot of assumptions, and you're old enough to know better. Hasn't the internet taught you anything? Apparently, you are not capable of sitting down with your parents and discussing the topic openly like you should. Go online and search "cheating wives" or "Hot wife" or "Swinger couples" and get a real education. As for your fantasy of screwing your mom, most teenage boys have that same fantasy. Even I did at 16. This is a good time for a commercial break..... I hope that I answered his question, or at least enlightened him. So, let's bounce up and down on our second question. All the moms know what I am talking about. The question is from a young lady(23f) who doesn't know what to do about her sister(28f). She starts out.... My sister and I are very close despite a 5-year difference in age. We can both be described as "extremely available for to sex, and with anyone". Decades ago, we would have been called a tramp. I just think we have a healthy sex drive. When my sister was in high school, she had a reputation as being easy. She was extremely fond of student athletes. Whereas I liked all boys when I got to high school. After I turned 16 and I had a car, I drove up to visit her at college. It was a good way for me to visit the campus and check out the nightlife. My sister's love of cock hadn't changed but she certainly preferred large and thick ones. She found most of them attached to black athletes. My sister was glad to see me and show me the ropes. Basketball season had ended and to celebrate there was a party at one of the frat houses. There were several kegs of beer and bottles of hard liquor to be enjoyed, and everyone was encouraged to partake. My sister is open about her love of BBC. As the night progressed the party became nothing short of full-on orgy. I saw my sister spit roasted by two large black guys, and they would go back and forth swapping ends. I found a well-equipped white guy, and I rode him for quite a while. I am sure he took great pride in fucking a 16-year-old in front of his teammates. My sister and I drank our fair share and stumbled back to her apartment. The sex didn't stop that night, and we had a fun sex filled weekend. I was surprised that she got engaged in her senior year. She brought him home to meet mom and dad, and I was really surprised that he was a six-foot two white guy, and definitely not what I expected from her. He seemed to be a very nice guy, and my parents were happy that he came from money. They married in a small ceremony about 6 months later. His parents helped fund them to get a nice ranch style house. If she was honest with me, she would have stayed monogamous about 4 months. She was always after me to go with her to a club downtown. It didn't take long to realize that this club was a pick-up joint for black men. I didn't like being a piece of meat to fuck and walk away. How much work would it be to pretend it was a little romantic. But the place suited my sister's needs. When she went out, she always said that she was going with me. Her husband thought that I was more levelheaded and hoped that I could keep her under control. After they moved in I spent a lot of time at their house, and I got to know her husband really well. I always checked on him when she was out of town, and we would even have dinner together if she was out. I left for college and was only home during breaks and holidays. For several years, using me as her excuse, she would go to these pick-up joints to get laid at least twice a month. Twice a year, she would take a trip with some of her girlfriends from school, or at least that is what she told hubby. She would go to Vegas or Jamaica. If she didn't take a hung stud with her, she would find one there. As she got closer to being thirty, she started talking about having a baby. She called me one weekend during the summer and asked me to go with her to a party the next Friday. Knowing her I knew there would be sex involved. I agreed and when we got there, I saw a bar at one end and the middle of the room had stacks of wrestling mats. I walked up to the bar and there was a bubbly blonde cheerleader type in front of me. While standing in line she said she had been waiting months to go to a black breeder's party. You could tell that she was excited. With an astonished look, I turned to my sister and asked if she came here to get bred. She said that her black boyfriend wanted her to get pregnant for him but doesn't want to be responsible for it. I said to her, what about your husband? She told me that she has been off her birth control pills for over six weeks and he has had a fair chance to knock me up. So, I heard about this black breeder's party and decided to come. She asked me, you're going to let them fuck you too, won't you? I said I am on the pill so yes, but I won't get pregnant. They announced that the party was about to start, so line up if you want to be bred. My sister and I and four other white girls lined up. 12 naked black specimens of manhood came out of a back room, and the way the numbers worked out, two guys went up to each gal. To start we had to suck their cocks and get them wet because that was the only lubrication. As I sucked one guy the other came up behind me and rimmed my pussy and asshole, before burying at least ten inches of cock in my ass. I was startled by the size and depth of his cock, but the cock in my mouth was just as big. They both took their turn and fucked me and left a volume of negro sperm in me. I looked next to me, and my sister was really getting into her studs fucking her face and cunt. There was even a puddle of cum under her starting to grow, so this wasn't the first cock in her. I don't know about my sister, by I got up after 4 men and got another drink. My sister didn't stop until another hour had passed. The puddle of cum under her could fill a wine glass. As I drove her home she said, "that should do the trick". The next day I had time to think about the implications for her marriage. My sister and I met at a bagel shop to talk. I asked what happens when your husband finds out that you just delivered a black baby. She said that he has two choices, he can agree to raise the baby or divorce me, and I will take the house and half of everything he has. So here is my dilemma and question. Should I tell her husband, so he can avoid nine months of waiting for the shoe to drop? I have become very fond of him, and some would say that I am too fond. I would love to have him as my husband. One thing for sure, once my sister shows our parents a black baby, they won't want anything to do with her. Wow, another interesting story, and question. I think you really need to tell him how you feel about him and use that as the reason that you are telling him about the pregnancy and baby. I must believe that you feel he is fond of you also, just not willing to cheat on his wife with you. The best thing he can do is locate his savings and assets in such a way that she can't get them. A good attorney can tell him how. He can file for divorce in most states based on infidelity. I hope things work out for you, and good luck! Time for more commercials and I look forward to responding to more questions tomorrow. Remember to submit them by email to: 4studclayton@gmail. My podcast of Thursday the 9th : Good morning to everyone, and I hope you had a fucktastic evening. There is no shame if you're tired in the morning because you didn't get to sleep till late, because you had a better bedroom offer! You can guess why I am in a chipper mood. Thank you for all the new emails that were submitted. We have two interesting stories and questions for today. We will try to avoid any more cheating partners. Let's start with this one. My boyfriend (16m) Timmy and I (16f) just started dating in the last several months. We met at the beginning of summer. We were both camp counselors at a Christian camp about 30 miles from home. After lunch each day the campers must attend bible study which lasts two hours. This allows the counselors some free time to do whatever they want. I asked Timmy if he wanted to go on a hike, so we followed a trail up into the nearby hills. After 45 minutes we found a grassy area to take a break. He seemed shy so I kissed him. He was a really good kisser. Things advanced until I gave him a blowjob. I prefer to swallow instead of spitting it out, and his cum wasn't bitter. When we walked back, we held hands. For the rest of our time at camp we would sneak off for oral sex. He tried eating me out, but he didn't put in much effort. When we got back home, we continued dating at least once a week, and continued with me sucking him off. His parents were from down south and what would be described as "Christian conservatives". They were very supportive of us dating, and even encouraged us. Timmy had three best buddies, and they met in cub scouts. Two of the boys dropped out of scouts, and they were clearly gay lovers. They decided they preferred a soft bed over camping out. I have nothing against gays, and I would label myself as Bi. Like most teenage girls I have enjoyed more than a few nights partaking in girl-on-girl sex. My older brother sucked off most of his buddies and teammates, and he taught me how to suck cock with the help of a neighbor boy. So, when I go over at Timmy's house it is quite common that his buddies are there too. The two gay guys I refer to as OG, as in outwardly gay. His other buddy is in the senior scouts working on the final badge with him. I know his scout leader because he is our history teacher. My parents swear that they saw him out dressed as a woman, but they say live and let live. Timmy and his buddies are all prone to hugging when they get excited, and probably would kiss if I weren't there. So, do you think that Timmy is also gay? Is he just dating me to appease his parent, so he can pretend to be straight? I certainly wouldn't think much about the fact that he and his buddies enjoy sex together. It is no different than my brother and his buddies, or me and my girlfriends. I don't think that he would ever admit that he is gay, because of his parents. My response... The situation that you describe is much more common than you would guess. I am bi and I would never turn down a blowjob, no matter who was giving it, even if it required reciprocal attention. Timmy's parents remember back to when they were kids. Anyone admitting they were gay or even accused of it, they were ostracized by family and friends, verbally and physically abused by the kids at school, and their life became a living hell. No parent wants to see their child go through that. The way you describe his lack of interest in eating you out and hasn't shown any effort to fuck you, is a big rainbow flag. I think you are right; he is gay and dating you is just window dressing. I would recommend that you should remain friends and encourage him to come out. There is no need for you to continue giving him blowjobs, because he has buddies for that, and you need to look for a real boyfriend that will treat you romantically. It sounds like you are ready for a boyfriend to give you a regular and vigorous fuck. It is time for a commercial break, and we will back for question number 2...... Question number 2 I am writing for me and my sister. We are very close, and we have shared oral sex since Jill was 11 and I was 13. By the time I started high school we admitted that we were in love with each other. Our parents are very ardent Catholics, and Jill and I attended an all-girls catholic school. Since we are both reserved but friendly mom said we will make great nuns. She has her heart set on us both becoming nuns. When I was a junior in high school, mom started giving me info on seminary-based colleges. That would be a fast track to the convent. When I applied and was accepted at a regular Catholic university, she was disappointed, but doubled down on brainwashing Jill. She still hoped that I will change direction, but one nun in the family was better than none. I felt sorry for Jill because I know how mom can nag. Mom wasn't naïve about the two of us having sex since we slept in the same bed. She made a comment one night that lesbians in the convent was as common as gay priests. Dad pretended not to hear what she just said. When Jill needed to pick a college, she only considered going where I attended, so we could be together again. Mom was upset and she was still pushing the idea of us becoming nuns. Jill and I tried to explain that if we went into the convent, it was likely we would be sent to different parishes or missionary assignments. She refused to accept that we were in love and wanted to live together as a couple. My sister and I don't know how mom will ever accept our choices. My response... Although your situation is somewhat unique, but it is basically typical of many gay or lesbian children. Many parents have a hard time accepting the sexual lifestyle of gays and lesbians. You and your sister will never change your mom's opinion, even though your dad will always support your choices. The best you can hope is that she will mellow out over the years. We still have a little bit of time yet. To keep it brief I will paraphrase and respond also. I received an email from a woman in her forties. She is dating a guy about her age, but it hasn't progressed to the bedroom yet. When she was in her twenties, she contracted AIDS and she went through years of medication and celibacy. She says with new medications she wouldn't transmit it to anyone, and it would be theoretically safe. She wants to know if she should tell her boyfriend before their relationship progresses. It is easy for me to respond to this. If the situation was reversed, would you want to know? Our time is up, and I will respond to more questions tomorrow. Support the companies that advertise. Have an enjoyable evening. My podcast of Friday the 10th : After yesterday's stories it reminded me of my college roommate's girlfriend, that I have talked about before. She was hypnotized and turned into a fucktoy for everyone to enjoy. I admit that I enjoyed fucking her every chance I got, and many times that her boyfriend didn't know about. But based on her interaction with her female roommate you could tell there was a sexual connection that they shared. From what I heard about her family they were very conservative. If it wasn't for that, I could see her being a lesbian, and she would probably be very happy. So many people get trapped into a specific life choice, despite a hidden desire. This results in unhappy marriages and sexually frustrated adults. Ok, on to our first story and question. Normally I try to focus on human sexuality, but this story and question needed a response. She wrote that I (24f) have been dating George (31m) for almost a year. Our sex life is great. and I love how he grabs the back of my head and shoves his cock in my mouth and throat until my nose is smashed in his pubes. I really like a dominate partner. George lives on a houseboat in the Seattle area. During covid he lost his tech job, and that is when things changed. He got very frustrated trying to find another job. With minimal income he got behind making his boat payments. The person that he bought it from said that unless he could get caught up to date, he would have to re-possess it. When I was there, I heard the shouting matches that George would have with the registered owner. He told me one night that if he tried to take his houseboat back, that he would shoot a bunch of holes in it with his pistol. It seemed that he was becoming more irrational, and possessive of even me. He is worse when he is drinking, and he becomes totally paranoid that everyone is out to get him. I can see this spiraling out of control, and I want your advice on what I should do. My response... First this is not New York city and there are no squatter rights. In maritime law he would be considered a pirate and dealt with accordingly. For your own safety you need to first take every bit of your checking and savings out in cash. Pack up everything that can fit in your car and leave town. Leave no forwarding address and leave secretly during the night. You need to disappear and go completely off the grid. I would suggest Montana, Wyoming, or North Dakota. There are many small towns that would welcome an attractive young lady. I am sure you can find an alpha boy or girlfriend to enjoy and dominate your body. Maybe you will meet a rancher that wants to see you fucked by his stallion. Well, it is time for a commercial break.... Welcome back. A young man wrote at my website Stud4advice.com wanting to know, what the right age for sex to occur. He didn't define what kind, so I will go chronologically. Normally 12- or 13-year-old boys start getting interested in playing with their penis, which usually leads to boys jerking off together. From what I have learned from my girlfriends, is that girls start eating pussy about that same age, and some earlier. How do you think they become BFF's. Every boy is different, but I enjoyed jerking off with a group of boys. Maybe that feels less gay. Eventually if a boy has a really good friend, that he can talk to about anything, a true bottom boy will ask to be fucked. Sometimes his fuck buddy will want to be fucked also, but some just want to top. I fell into the latter category. I liked girls too, so I was definitely Bi. The desire for boys wanting to get fucked commonly occurs about 14 or 15. If the desire is strong enough the bottom boy will start searching out adults, whether it be an uncle, his scout leader, minister, or neighbor. The boy just needs cock filling his ass. He might deny it, but he is a queer faggot, and always will be. As for girls, most of the girls that I knew lost their virginity by 14, but there are always late bloomers. I haven't found the right girl for me, so far that I want to have a romantic entanglement with. I can love the way that they suck cock, or enjoy getting laid, but that is as far as my love has gone. I guess that I prefer casual and really good sex, and if you call me a horndog, so be it. So, if you choose to be gay, or straight, lesbian, or a dominatrix, a crossdresser, or any combination, it is all fine because that is how you are wired. On to our second story and question. This came via my email account, and she wrote... I am a seventeen-year-old female and I have been dating a boy since we were sophomores in high school. When I date a guy, I always initiate intercourse on the first date. I don't want to waste my time on a boy with a small cock, or a boring sex partner. My relationship with my boyfriend is not exclusive, and I am screwed frequently. But most people at school think of us as a couple. I grew up in a household where incest is quite common, and almost expected. Moms and dads are typically the people to train their children in sexual activities. This applies to the whole family, including aunts and uncles, grandparents, and every cousin. It helps that we're openly bisexual. Every night it is likely that parents and siblings are enjoying sex with each other. Here is my dilemma and question to you. My boyfriend does not know about the rampant incest that occurs within my family. I avoid bringing him to my house because we are clothing optional and who knows what he would see. If our relationship progresses and we were to get engaged or married, he would be expected to participate in family sex, whether giving or receiving. I think he is bi, based on things he has said, so that will help. We are raised that if someone wants to have sex with you, it would be insulting to refuse. I really like him, and I have spent considerable thought on how to welcome him into the family. I could be having sex with him in my bedroom and have my mother and or younger sister come in naked to join us. I would wait for another time to have the men folk join us. If I didn't scare him off, he will have plenty of opportunity to become familiar with every cock and pussy in the family. So, do you have any better ideas? My response... For you to get a feeling about his attitude towards incest, you could go online and watch incest videos together. There are hundreds online. That could start up a conversation about incest, and if he seems intrigued and erect you could explain that your parents exposed you to the joy of incestual sex. Once you literally suck him in, you could slowly over time, explain obligations and expectations. If he is a typical red-blooded man, he will love the idea of unlimited sex, I know that I would. I hope that I answered your question. Since this is a podcast, you can't see how often that I have an aching hard-on wanting to escape my pants, just like now. Story end. If you would like to hear more questions and answers, send me an email. Add suggestions of scenarios that you want to see. Maybe there should be a follow up on the above stories.