Date: Thu, 18 Mar 2021 06:54:41 +0000
From: Fr50Boi
Subject: No Need For Equipment

I am posting the following because I was told to, by a Man in the US who I
correspond with and I always do as He says. I apologize if it's a bit
disjointed and it refers to other men I have served and have previously
described to Him. Please let me know if this pleases you or not after
reading it and I will let Him know and I apologize for my bad writing. I
understand that if you write me, you will probably insult me. I accept
that.

I have an enjoyment in being secured and abused, just part of my sub side I
guess. I have to admit that I much prefer normal items, sort of household
or everyday objects to be used. Rather than specialist purchased items, if
you understand what I mean.

Leather Wrist and Ankle cuffs with studs and a metal ring are ok. But a
length of cord or rope has far more meaning, things like Duct Tape and
cable ties can be too dangerous and painful. Yet Parcel Tape has just the
same effect and strength, but much less painful to remove later.

I knew a Man and he had a Dog Leash hanging on the back of his Door, as if
ready for when he took his dog for a walk. Yet he did not have a Dog, so
most people assumed it was just a reminder about a Dog he used to have. But
for the subs it was a tease and physical prop he might use if he took a
fancy to you.

Another advantage of daily items is that if seen by others it may look a
little odd, but it does not raise any suspicions. Of all things used to
punish, the slap of a hand is very effective. It's more personal and of
course the owner of the hand gets to feel some of the effects of its
impact.

Ask any spanker and the majority will say giving a hand spanking is much
more fun and beneficial. It gives new meaning to the term hands on, but
that close contact adds to the sensation for all involved and does not
require special equipment, only opportunity.

Yes Canes, straps and paddles are sometimes necessary but again require
preparation and expense. But why not a trouser belt, my Uncle bought me a
wide leather belt to wear, so all day and while he was away on his travels
I was reminded of him and the use he put the belt to on his return.

I had a Boss once and he would take his belt off and put it on my desk as I
sat there, or I would find it in my desk drawer after returning from
lunch. I knew that later when alone he would summon me to his office and
I'd have to accept his punishment.

With a punishment comes many effects and the stimulation of all the senses
for both parties, and spectators if you're lucky. Yes the sight of a Whip
or Cane may bring some fear to the sub, but surely a slap or punch has more
effect. It is perhaps out of the blue and gives surprise, along with the
feeling of pain. Then there is the sound of skin hitting skin that fills
the room followed by the sub's cry of surprise and the stinging pain.




But the Dom also experiences a small amount of pain, enough to perhaps
start His adrenaline pumping. Also as it's up close, He can see the
response of the sub's face and body to his chastisement. Now what better
than perhaps a bare footed kick to a sub's balls or his stomach, I suspect
the impact on the sub has the same effect and the Dom also experiences some
of the contact.

Ok so He can see the effect a whip or cane has on the subs, He also hears
the effect. But with a slap or punch He also experiences some of the pain,
even with a kick he will sense some of the hurt he is producing.

Tying the Dom's Boots to the subs balls, so no need for fancy expensive
weights the effect will be the same. Of course clothes pegs have a great
many uses and are great, but the Dom's forefinger and thumb are much better
for use on a sub's nipples and other sensitive places.

A Dom's hand around a sub's balls or throat, says much more than any clamp
or collar.

But of course, we have to get to the beginning, the start of the sub's
surrender. That can only be verbal, the sound of the Dom's voice
instructing the sub to submit.

Not jumping out from behind a bush and attacking the sub or slipping
something into its drink. The submission has to be consensual, because the
sub knows he wants it and now has been offered a chance to prove itsself to
a superior.

So trembling the sub undresses, many things go through its mind the first
thing is has he got this right. Did the Superior really want me to strip
off or am i about to be laughed at. As to what the Dom is thinking I have
no real idea, except i hope he is enjoying the start of his conquest.

As the sub continues to obey the verbal commands and looks from the Dom,
like the Dom looking at the subs clothes on the floor. The sub should have
known not to make a mess and to have folded its garments neatly to one
side. The sub will be so scared right now, maybe even looking around for
that expensive equipment, but its not there and now its mind starts to
race.

Of course, the ultimate fear of the sub is to be rejected at this point,
standing there naked and the Dom flicks his hand in a dismissive move or
even starts laughing and tells the sub to fuck off. What would the sub do
then, fall to the floor and beg or scoop up its clothes and run away
crying. His pathetic little body having been rejected, its mind now crushed
not just with disappointment or the little pride it did have. It's been
found worthless before it even got to beg for mercy or to be allowed to
serve its Superior.

We all know what the sub wants, what it will do no matter how depraved or
demeaning. It wants to suckle on the Dom's cock, it wants to taste the Dom
and his man juice. Now using equipment on a sub to make it suffer and beg
is easy, but verbal abuse is better. Just the sound and tone of a Dom's
voice can crush a sub's feeling and any pride it thought it had, even
reduce it to tears from humiliation.

The use of everyday household items is not only effective but they can be
used as an aid to memory during the working day, when a sub is separated
from its Dom.

One Dom had me carry around a very short length of plastic chain, three or
four links long, again as a reminder when i was not with Him as to whom i
belonged. At work I had to put the chain on my desk, if anyone asked about
it my reply was to be is to remind me to buy some more.

Of course nowadays the internet and its availability keeps a sub in contact
with its Dom. But the bit of Bailing Twine I had to have tied around my
ankle, was perhaps a better reminder as I worked for that Farmer in the
fields.

The verbal insults and praise from a Dom go straight to a sub's heart, they
go deep into its mind and inflict more pain than any whipping. The praise
of you're a good little cock sucker aren't you, is barbed as its also
saying that's all your good at you scum. Also to put a sub down verbally in
front of others, is a major blow to the sub. It does not take much just the
click of the Dom's fingers or simply being told to shut up.

So there stands the naked sub, waiting or maybe now on its knees and
holding up its arms. Hands together waiting for the Dom to tie them up, but
he does not need to do that as he can now slap the sub on each side of its
face. Time and time again, no matter how hard and the tears of the sub. A
punch to the face does more than collaring a slave, as it will get up and
resume the kneeling position and wait for the next onslaught from the
Superior.

The breaking of a sub is not difficult, let's face it the sub has been
looking for a Superior Person all its life. Now a Superior Being has given
it an opportunity, it's not like breaking a stallion this is a sheep. But
the Dom has to instill a need in the sub to keep serving him, show the
sheep it needs this and wants this. Lead it down that road of submission,
maybe even add it to his flock of sheep. Shave its fleece off and let it
look in the mirror at what the Superior has done.

Let's face as they say in those Sci-Fi films, resistance is futile
earthling. The sub knows its future and no matter how hard it may try to
find a different place in life, it's a sub and always will be a sub.

The Dom knows the sub wants that one thing, its Superiors cock and of
course to be allowed to provide amusement to the Dom, its Master.

All the Dom needs is imagination and that streak in his superior character,
to be so good as to show the sub just a little of what real life can be
had. Chaining a sub up can be fun of course, but mental chains are far more
effective and last a lot longer.

Perhaps for a Dom it gets greater pleasure when it comes across a sub that
has denied its role in life or even tried to raise its standing up in
life. Trying hard to leave its submissive nature behind him and even hiding
in the heterosexual world. Suddenly it finds it is self-exposed, not only
has its sub nature returned but its love for cock exposed.

At those early sex parties i watched a man get gang banged, he cried and
begged yet the next day his love for cock was insatiable. No special toys
were used to secure him, just men holding him and taking turns. As I say
perhaps the best sessions are equipment free, of course sometimes a prop
even if it's just hanging on the wall or leaning up in a corner has the
desired effect.

But from a subs point of view, it's not the memories of past experiences
that matter. It's what may happen with the Dom that I now stand before, he
is the one setting the rules not my thoughts. My mind is now concentrated
on the Dom and pleasing Him, not what has happened to me in the past. I am
open minded but of course hesitant as to what will happen now.

I am of course reminded when I see objects or situations that remind me of
the past, encyclopaedias and large Bibles remind me of the times i had to
kneel on one or stand arms out stretched holding one for ages. Perhaps it's
the same for Doms, are they reminded by objects or do they just see the sub
in front of them that could be of use.

I do believe that submission and Domination (or should that be Domination
and submission) are more mental and mind things. Nature has given the Dom
all He needs to make men submit, perhaps from boredom He might use a
physical item just to see how well it works.

Respectfully, Fr50boi