From: MacJam@ix.netcom.com (MacLean-Jameson)
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Subject: Re: My first time
Date: 4 Dec 1994 22:50:23 GMT
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..How many of you learned to jerk off on you own? did you hear about it 
from another guy? Did anyone actually show you (like a brother or a 
friend)? did you ever do it with another guy (individually or to each 
other).
>
>I would like to get e-mail from anyone that would like to share their 
first time or their experiences during their early adolecense!  
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When I was around 11, maybe early 12, I would sit on the toilet for way 
too long looking at pictures in National Geographic (We had a huge 
collection & there were plenty of naked African ladies pictured) or 
reading some forbidden thing I'd found in a book.  Chose the bathroom 
because at that age it was the only place I was guaranteed privacy.  
Would sit with my hard dick between the seat and my closed legs and that 
felt really good.  Finally I learned to stimulate my cock with my hands 
but rather than fisting, I would roll it between my palms really fast.  
When I was about to come, I'd lean forward and blast the jets of semen 
into the toilet.  Anyone one else do it that way?  

Eventually I discovered the fist.  Not sure how, as I pretty much never 
dicussed whacking off at that age.  Maybe it came about when I began to 
j/o in the bath.  Could be that the soap made my dick too slippery to 
control when rolled between my palms and I finally just grabbed it.  Do 
remember that I quickly found that soap made a very bad lubricant!  
After massaging my cock with it long enough to come, my penis would get 
incredibly red and raw.  Yow!  (Sidelight:  A girl I know started her 
jilling off career by rubbing her pussy with a bar of soap while in the 
bath.  Soon learned that it would leave her clit as red & raw as my 
cock, so she moved on to other techniques.)  

Come to think of it, I may have grabbed my dick to masturbate after a 
friend I was visiting in Maine when I was 13 asked if I masturbated.  
Before I could even answer he said, "Of course you do," then held up his 
hand like the OK sign to show that was his method of gripping his 
penis and did I do it that way?  But, I was too shy to discuss it and we 
dropped the subject.  May well have later tried his way and found it 
easier for me to just grab the whole thing and whack away.  

One last thing re:  abstinence.  Because I confessed this habit to my 
mother I was told that, while it was natural, I should try to not do it. 
Well, at one point I did try and went about six weeks without beating 
off.  Helped that we were on a family vacation in England & I had little 
privacy anyway.  Finally had "too much" privacy and a bathtub with an 
adjustable shaving mirror on the island of Guernsey.  Looking in the 
mirror while I soaped up my rapidly inflating cock was too much for my 
13-yr. old hormones and I quickly beat off to a great orgasm. Really 
cool, too, to see in the mirror the pent up thick, white come spurt into 
the air.  Felt guilty and laid off for two more weeks, then had a wet 
dream at my grandmother's house in Canterbury.  At that point I figured 
my body wasn't going to leave me alone and thought, "Fuck it."  If you 
can't beat 'em... well, beat it!  Now, 20 years later, I still jack off 
5-10 times a week, unless I have a girlfriend in town.  Even then we 
incorporate masturbation into our games.

Would like to know how other men and women discovered self-amusement.  
This IS one of the best groups for constructive criticism and actual 
sharing.  Can't believe how crude and flame-oriented many of the others 
are.  Alt.christnet is the worst I've seen.  (I'm not being 
anti-religious, it's just that all people do on it is rip into each 
other in the crudest, least constructive way.)  It's truly scary.  
Alt.sex.fetish.size is low key and sometimes interesting, but not many 
people seem to use it.  Of course, it's quite new.  

Anyway, keep up the good work!

Tom