The Masturbation Manual Originally given to me as part of a masturbation and fantasizing workshop (?) at the Second Story Youth Centre, 57 Hyde Street, Adelaide SA 5000 Regards, Dan... One of the secrets of successful mutual masturbation is varying your hand motions. Here are just a few techniques that are indispensable. Switch-Hitter Use both hands, alternating back and forth in a pattern you develop to offer him the most arousal. He will notice the difference. Your less practised hand is more tentative, less firm. He'll respond to that. But only temporarily. Don't get into a routine where the strokes are dull and noncommittal; men like to be handled firmly. Double Whammy Bring both well lubricated hands down on his shaft. Some penises are so big they require two hands. If your partner's doesn't, then use the other hand to caress and lightly flutter his testicles, or tighten around the base of his shaft. If both hands fit along the length of the shaft, move them together, up and down, in the typical pumping motion. You can also vary the directions of your hands, one up, one down at the same time. The Anvil Stroke Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom. When it hits the bottom release it. Meanwhile you're bringing your corresponding hand down on the top of the shaft, creating an alternating beating motion, hence the name anvil stroke. The Shuttle Cock Take the penis in both hands, fingers lightly touching the sides of the shaft. In order to visualise the positio, think of yourself holding a clarinet. Now flick the penis back and forth between your two hands by holding on to the loose skin of the shaft. Shuttling it back and forth in this manner may not seem incredibly thrilling to him at first, but pretty soon as it builds up momentum, it will drive him out of his mind. The Bookends Place both of your hands side by side against his shaft like a pair of bookends. Now push hard against his penis. Then lift your hands up and down. Continue in this manner for a while. The consant tugging on the skin around the balls and the mons pubis will do the trick. The Base Clutch Tighten your thumb and forefinger around the base of the shaft, pressing down on the testicles. This will help you steady the shaft in your hand. If the skin on it is slick and smooth, you can stroke the penis with more friction, thereby augmenting the thrilling experience. The Love Tug As you are stroking him, lightly pull on the wispy strands of pubic hair sprouting from his testicles. Don't pull so hard that you remove them altogether - just tease them gently and lovingly. The Two-Timer Tickle his testicles with one hand while the other moves up and down. The Thigh Swatter Use the hand that is currently unemployed to firmly but lovingly pat his inner thighs. Best Fist Forward Place your fist against his perineum as you're stroking him. He'll probably start opening his legs a little wider, giving you more space to press against. The Chestnuts I call a man's nipples "chestnuts" because they are a primary erogenous zone that happens to be located on his chest. Massage one of his nipples while you masturbate him. Spin the little pink and brown areole between your thumb and forefinger as if you were trying to find a good station on the radio. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well, that's it - and remember, maturbation is one of the safest forms of sex of all. It has also been suggested to be that placing two penises on one condom and masturbating is pretty good too. Best of luck on your new venture! Regards, Dan...